12th grader dating 8th grader

10th grader going out with 8th grader?

10th grader dating 8th grader

Does anyone think it is alright for a 12th grade guy to go out with a 10th grade girl? So the bottom line is. The only 12 year old that would get into 8th grade would have to be a mega genius who skipped 2 grades. What if her girlfriends say things like, "like, like, oh my god Well I didn't know how much you liked her or what haha I just really think that's a bad idea. It really is going to depend on how the two of you feel about it.

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If you do decide to get into anything with her take it slow. I probably wouldn't tell people she's in 8th grade. I mean just because a girl likes you doesn't mean you have to date her. Wait until she gets to high school or just forget about it, because this looks bad both on your rep and hers. Well if she's in 8th grade she's like what, 13 14? Anyone from planet earth would know that it's not acceptable and it shouldn't be done. Just beware of that.

What if the 10th grader looks like a loser or uncool What if her girlfriends say things like, "like, like, oh my god Mario The Date Police will arrest you if you go over the grade gap limit. Dude, 8th graders aren't old enough to date.

More of these threads? XilePrincess Follow Forum Posts: Gunnerman Follow Forum Posts: Date whoever you want. It's not a big deal That's fine, its just sad because I'm in 10th and can't get a 10th grade GF. It's odd to think about and people will think it's weird, but when she's a freshman and you're a junior, they won't even notice. That's just the odd way it works. It's odd how the older you are, the farther that age gap extends. LZ71 Follow Forum Posts: Lopur94 Follow Forum Posts: Since the 8th grader is the guy which is you, then go for it.

I think it is really up to you and her, but if you are planning on making things serious or doing anything other then kissing then you should see how her parents feel.

At your age what the parents thinks makes a difference especially sense she is under age. When it comes to both girls it's really up to you. You can always just date and see where things go, but make sure you discuss where you stand. This may be late but good luck. Find out how wold she is I say two grade levels is the limit until after college.

None taken I'm not exactly 11 now anyways lol.. But I was living basically on my own - I mean with my sister, so I was used to in-depedence He just ended up being a little clingy, lol Yea, that makes sense then. I hung out with her friend once, her friend told me she was in 9th grade so I was cool with it.

But now I found out that her friend was really in 7th grade! WTF I feel like a pedophile. Ahhaha wel you are not a pedophile, just maybe wait till school is out - I mean take it slow hang out for now- which is good anyways. And Romeo and Juliet were also fictional characters. But when they did fall in love and "dated" they killed themselves.

Yeah, I thought so. I just meant you can get along personality wise. Tho not a course of action I would have taken. Two things to really consider: They date each other for a week because its 'cool' but they don't even hold hands. Will her parents FLIP if they find out she's dating someone older? I know you don't want to care what adults think, but it could become a big issue. Wait till she's in high school, it's not bad cause it's only two years but the whole middle school to highschool thing makes a bigger difference than you'd think.

I'm dating a younger guy, but we're both older than you. Age difference starts to matter less the older you get. It really is going to depend on how the two of you feel about it. You both need to be comfortable about the age difference or it will not work. If you two started dating, would you be comfortable if your friends and family knew about the age difference? Or would you be embarrassed?

If you'd be embarrassed or you're having doubts, then yes. Another thing to consider is the laws in your place of residence. Look up your age of consent laws! If it's illegal where you live, it's an easy decision. And hey- you're both young. Lots of life ahead of you, and lots of people to date: She might be even cooler and hotter and outgoing at age 17!

Anyway, no I think it would be much better if you dated someone who was already in high school. Look at it this way, you're friends aren't going to have much respect for you if you can't get someone your own age.

Besides, in middleschoolers are still children. I think you should go for it, you should not care what people think.

It's up to you. Do you like her? Just don't take advantage of her, nothing past kissing or making out. And don't worry what your friends think. I hate when guys won't ask you out, because their friends don't approve.

Do what you want. I'd answer this but this is an old question and it's probably too late for help But I'm just going to say I was in a good relationship with the same exact age difference, three years is fine. It depends on maturity. I think you should wait til she's a freshman. Wait until she gets to high school or just forget about it, because this looks bad both on your rep and hers. You can date her Pick the gal you like best.

Now, a 7th grader dating a 12th grader that's just wronggg Sure people will talk crap things Then again its up to you. For me, I don't care about what other people think and I follow what I want. So the bottom line is. I don't think there's any type of problem dating her. As long as you two have things in common and have fun when you go out that's all that matters. You should find out her age first.

Grade doesn't mean anything. I would say is she is less than 2 years younger than you, its ok, but take it real slow.

I mean, in a few months she will be a freshman right? But over two years at your age is pushing it, and you might just want to leave that be. Doesn't matter if she likes you, its just probably not a good idea. Well, if she's more than 2 years apart, I would wait until she is 16 to date her.

If she is the one, it won't be a problem. Ok, I found out that she's 13, but age ain't nothing but a number right? I don't need to worry about "the one", it's not like we're getting married. Just a relationship dude.

Well I didn't know how much you liked her or what haha I just really think that's a bad idea. Because, its not just a number. You can keep telling yourself that it is, or that she is mature, but there is a line, and you are dancing on it. Its true that the difference between 23 and 26 year olds doesn't mean anything at all, and I know its not fair, but I think you should just wait a bit on that one. I believe a 8th grade girl is about Don't get involved in this my friend. You may enjoy the attention from a girl, but that age is not going to fair well on any front what so ever.

Focus yourself on girls. They are way more in your ball park. I was 12 in 8th grade. It all depends when your birthday is. And what planet am I from? You're the one asking if it's ok if you date a girl in 8th grade while you are Anyone from planet earth would know that it's not acceptable and it shouldn't be done.

Not when 8th graders are teenagers. Juniors date freshmen all the time. It's the same age difference. The only 12 year old that would get into 8th grade would have to be a mega genius who skipped 2 grades. Unless you've skipped two grades, then what kind of 8th grade are you talking about?

It could definitely be considered "treading on thin ice", but only because you're both young. On the other hand, something to remember is that girls mature faster than guys at that point in their lifetime. So, a lot of times, you tend to see freshman girls dating senior guys. This is because of that maturity gap. Now, I don't suggest doing much more than dating or hanging out. This means no sex or anything this age gap can be a very bad thing at a young age.

About choosing which girl to chase after: Whoever you chase, just be yourself. I mean, who else is better qualified: There are a million different ways this could go. Yea, definently no sex. I'm gonna go to the movies with her and hang out to find out if I really do like her.

I'm still not sure if the girl in my grade that I like likes me though. She flirts with a lot of guys, I don't know if she's playing hard to get or if she just doesn't like me.

I mean she says hi and smiles, but that's it. Well, first, I don't know about your state, but my state it's sixteen with parents permission and it's still a really sketchy deal because the parents can change their mind at any time. Harmless flirting is okay First chemistry and no mathematics? Why do we have to resort to a life time of numbers to sufficiently idolize how happy and content we could be with someone.

It's maturity not majority that matters. If she can keep up with you on certain things, then I say why not. However, if she looks below the average of an 8th grader. And you look above the average of an 10th grader, then for the love of god you are screwed.

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Thats a pretty huge age difference, and usually its a huge power.

10th grader dating 8th grader

So, a lot of times, you tend to see freshman girls dating senior guys. Ok, I found out that she's 13, but age ain't nothing but a number right?

10th grader dating 8th grader

Also close this question. Now, I don't suggest doing much more than dating or hanging out. I met this girl a few months ago. Select as Most Helpful Opinion? But a 6th grader just entered middle school