Can My Wife Change My Access Arrangements?

Can My Wife Change My Access Arrangements?

my wife and i are separated and she is dating

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Stu - Jun My Daughter is 10 years old I have been to mediation once before and she never turned up so I am going to go for joint custody what are my chances of getting this. Her excuse for a random weekend once in a blue moon is, that she herself and her family, need quality time together with him. If a child leaves full. I pushed to a point that was very painful to her. Hi can anyone give me advice as I have moved to the USA and my ex is saying when I come back to visit my boy I can only see him 3 days with me then 3 with her.

Bit of a grey areato me. Garthsad - Your Question:. Hi can anyone give me advice as I have moved to the USA and my ex is saying when I come back to visit my boy I can only see him 3 days with me then 3 with her. I want him a week at a time. Is she allowed to do this?

Garthsad - Dec 6: I'm in desperate need of advice. I got divorced from my ex-wife last year, but we never had a formal written agreement regarding access to my son who's just turned 8.

I also have him on Sunday afternoons, either picking him up just before or just after lunch. Unfortunately I've been late picking him up from school on a few occasions the last time was on Tuesday, 1 November , and today, Sunday 6 November, I was late picking him up from his mum's.

I set off from Middlesbrough where my current partner lives at Should be there 1. You've just lost access. See you in court if you want it back. My question is this: If not, what can I do? Alternatively, if she can, what are my options? What can I do?? Hope to hear back soon. SeparatedDads - 7-Nov I'm in desperate need of advice This question is about access arrangements. I left my sons mother over 5 years ago and had to move into London due to not be able to afford child maintenance, live close by to my son and travel to work London.

Since we spilt my sons Mother has ignored the access agreements we have and is constantly changing them. At one point I had to complete a 4 hour round trip in public transport for 3 months every time I picked up my son even though I gave her my old car to assist in travel costs etc. By the time I got back home it would be past She dictates to me where I have to pick him up from and drop him off otherwise she won't let me see him. When I explained that I was waiting at the train station and didn't have that sort of money id just got married she said I couldn't see him.

It's getting really frustrating now as its been like this for 5 years. The examples I have given are a small selection.

I need to go through the courts but do you think it would be possible for the courts to outline when I see him and propose fair travel arrangements, as in I pick him up from hers and she picks him up from mine? I only ask because even if the courts set out access times and dates, based on her behaviour she will no doubt not care about that and put as many barriers up as possible Please help I feel totally helpless and alone.

Every can see how badly she is treating me but no one knows what I can do. Frustrated Dad - Sep 8: Marcus - Your Question:. I need help if someone could help me, so me and the mother of my child have a verbal agreement on when I see my child, I have her tuesday wednesday every other weekend I pay her every 1st of the month pound which she saying because we had an argument the other day she will be taking my Tuesday away from me, I have a verbal agreement with csi to pay her but I was thinking if she breaks the agreement we have that I will be putting it in to a account isa I dont wanna take her court but shes leaving me no opinion?

I need help if someone could help me, so me and the mother of my child have a verbal agreement on when i see my child, i have her tuesday wednesday every other weekend i pay her every 1st of the month pound which she saying because we had an argument the other day she will be taking my Tuesday away from me, i have a verbal agreement with csi to pay her but i was thinking if she breaks the agreement we have that i will be putting it in to a account isa i dont wanna take her court but shes leaving me no opinion?

Any help please Marcus - Jun 6: Hi I wonder if anybody can offer me some much needed advice. I have been separated from my wife for 4 months. It appears she has been planning on divorcing me for quite a while so when we split up she was way ahead of the game and I was unprepared. She managed to get me out of the house with a court order and I have had my two daughters age 14 and 15 ever since on a 3 days on 3 days off basis ever since whilst staying at my mums house.

I have no contact with my wife only through solicitors. Wife refused mediation as she wants to secure a big payout. We are gearing up for the financial settlement but she has hired a top lawyer and I think they are trying their best to fleece me.

It appears she is planning on getting the judge to grant a Mesher order so that she can stay in the house until my youngest reaches 18 or is out of university. I'm not sure if legally it includes university education. My wife has been taking the children to counselling behind my back. I found out about it after they had been to two sessions.

She had been telling them to lie to me about going. She is trying to make out the reason for taking them is to help them get over the split.

I contacted the counsellor myself and asked if I could be involved. The counsellor has been obstructive and not allowed me to go even to meet her. I know now that the whole thing has been setup. Last week I received a letter from the counsellor saying that she wanted to trial new living arrangements which would change the 3 days on 3 days off arrangement.

It's proposed that I just have the children two nights a week and she has them 5. I would get them Sunday afternoon until late Tuesday evening.

Sunday is always homework day as will Monday and Tuesday nights so I will have no quality time with them at all. The report is completely biased and basically the counsellor has been put up to this by my wife from day one. I know she is doing this in readiness for going to court so that she can persuade the judge that she needs a bigger financial settlement and also I will have to lay more child maintenance.

What has really upset me is that this was all done behind closed doors and she has brainwashed the children into believing this is what they wanted.

The children were very happy with the previous arrangement until she took them to counselling. They are scared of going against her as she is a very controlling woman. She is trying to alienate them against me. It's difficult as they are girls and she is really pushing the girly thing with them. I've spoken with the children and they said they preferred being in their own bedrooms. It's breaking me as I am not the guilty party. I am taking it to court as Lovingdadoftwo - Jun 9: Hi Can my ex wife keep changing the days I see may daughter?

My Daughter is 10 years old I have been to mediation once before and she never turned up so I am going to go for joint custody what are my chances of getting this. SeparatedDads - 1-Jun My Daughter is 10 years old I have been to mediation once before and she never turned up so I am going to go for joint custody what are my chances of getting this Stu - May 4: Scot - Your Question:. Bit of advice please. Me and my sons mum split when he was 1. Recently, I have tried to accomplish more time with him, weare both wanting this, me and him.

I have pushed this forward to his mum, to keep the arrangements as they are but every 3rd weekend have him for a full weekend. Since the start of the year I have had him twice! I have built a friendship ish with his mum over the years and I don't want to rock the boat! But, my son and I need more quality time together, I mean, alternative weeks are ok, but 1 night and a day isn't much for flesh and blood! I am have joint guardian rights, have payed my way, always been there, but I still feel my hand is forced and feeling a bit of a baby sitter at the moment.

Her excuse for a random weekend once in a blue moon is, that she herself and her family, need quality time together with him. SeparatedDads - May Bit of advice please.. Scot - May 1: Tez - Your Question:.

I'm writing this on behalf of my son as I'm so worried about him , he works away all week and keeps asking to see his kids at the weekend but she won't let him she says only having them at the weekend is not good enough , she posts awfull things about him on Facebook saying the kids cry all the time because he does not want to see them which is a complete lie , he is worried that if he takes her to court that he will have to give up his job because she says he has to have them though the week as well and the court agrees with her x can they do this.

I'm writing this on behalf of my son as I'm so worried about him , he works away all week and keeps asking to see his kids at the weekend but she won't let him she says only having them at the weekend is not good enough , she posts awfull things about him on Facebook saying the kids cry all the time because he does not want to see them which is a complete lie , he is worried that if he takes her to court that he will have to give up his job because she says he has to have them though the week as well and the court agrees with her x can they do this Tez - May 3: John - Your Question:.

Hi, My ex and I have been seperated for 3 years now and divorce is going through. We have an approximate 50 50 split which we arranged amicably ish. She did the paper work for the divorce and I was entirely happy with her statements as to our childcare arrangements working well etc. I am still in the marital home and she lives close by. Our child is in Year 2. She is now looking at moving about a 30 minute drive away.

Whilst she has said she is not planning on changing our child's school I am concerned that she might along with an attempt to change our where our child spends time largely based on her convenience and making sure she gets enough time to see our child once she has felt about it some more.

After 3 years of this arrangement working well I don't want to have bust up as I have worked very hard to build an amicable relationship with her but do not believe a move of school or change in child care would be in our child's interests.

Does anyone have experience in a similar situation and, should it end in court, know what the courts would consider? SeparatedDads - 9-May She did the paper work for the divorce and I was entirely happy with her statements as to our childcare arrangements working well etc John - 8-May Hi I would like some advice, my current partner has had access to his son since birth he is now 7 in the beginning when he was a baby his ex allowed him to see his son for a few hours a day one day a week this eventually turned into one overnight stay a week and as he got older it changed to every weekend from fri to sun.

I moved up so we were face to face and kissed my beautiful wife. She had a look of complete satisfaction on her face. I silently hoped she would answer the next question correctly. I could only look back into her moist eyes and smile.

I placed the head of my penis at her vaginal opening as she placed her hands on my hips. I pushed the tip in. She gasped, pushed back on my hips, and told me to stop.

She relaxed and I pushed a little more in. She again gasped in pain pushing back on my hips. I stopped and waited. When she relaxed again, I pushed a little more in. With each small push, she would gasp in pain, push my hips back, and I would stop for a few moments, allowing her to relax so I could proceed. With each thrust and wave of pain, she would also tense her legs which was creating another barrier for me to push against.

Then something amazing happened. I pushed to a point that was very painful to her. She cried out in pain and asked me to stop. I held my position and waited. When the pain subsided, I tried to push again but I could not push any further. She again gasped in pain and asked me to stop. Again, I held my position and waited. Three times she cried out in pain and asked me to stop. Three times I waited for her pain to subside before trying again to push past this spot.

Three times, her pain denied my penetration. She began to try pushing me out and off of her. Her tears were breaking my heart. Can you trust me? Her eyes closed and her head tilted back as a wave of pleasure flowed from her vagina, washing her entire body in cleansing ecstasy.

Her hands went from pushing my hips around to my butt and she started pulling me in. I actually felt the blood of her broken hymen spread across my penis. It was an amazing sensation that I will never forget. My sweet, beautiful bride had just given me her most precious gift.

I vowed to never break the trust she placed in me that night. It was a connection I had never even dreamed of. I loved feeling him on top of me, breathing his warm breath on me as he touched me and slid in and out of me.

Experiencing it for the first time with my husband was the most precious thing. I felt so grateful that I had waited for him. With the pain in the past, and her pulling me closer, I was able to push my manhood all the way into her sweet, virgin wetness. She spread her legs wider and allowed me full access and penetration. She was so wonderfully tight, it was wonderfully difficult to pull out, and wonderfully difficult to slide back in. But I managed to back out slowly and then push myself back in to the deepest depths.

With each stroke, I could feel the head of my penis touching her cervix. She was completely full as was I. With each outward motion and thrust back in, I could see the joy and fulfillment she was experiencing.

It was right then I realized that this would be my life mission; to see that face on my beautiful wife each time we made love for the rest of our lives. We started slow and steady. As we both began to relax and enjoy the sensations, we increased the pace and soon we were rocking the headboard against the wall.

She had an orgasm which pushed me over the edge. I unloaded my seed into her soul and she accepted every drop. We slowed the pace, kissed deeply and passionately, reveling in our new bond. The best part was that I was young and virile. Although I had just had an incredible orgasm, I remained hard and was able to continue.

God certainly knew what he was doing when he created these sexy amusement parks. We bought the tickets and could now enjoy all the rides. Time slipped by with no meaning. We had no worries, no cares, nothing but our naked bodies to worship and pleasure. We made love for a long while.

Being on top, I could control the tempo while looking her in the eyes. She was the most beautiful bride a man could ask for. She sucked my kisses, spread her legs as wide as possible and pulled at my butt trying to increase the depth of my thrusts. My pelvis slammed against her clit with each inward thrust. We were moaning in pure orgasmic ecstasy. She had several orgasms and I had three before my penis went flaccid. We kissed and cuddled until we both fell into a deep, blissful sleep as we spooned each other.

We slept for maybe an hour. I was lost in his manhood. He was so strong, so manly, and … so big inside me. I shuddered and gasped as he slid his manhood in and out of me in long, sensuous, loving strokes.

I felt so full, so complete. Nick, the man of my dreams, was inside me, giving me pleasure I never imagined possible. I was in love. He continued sliding in and out of my insatiable pussy. I could feel his sperm leaking out and running down the crack of my bum. At this point, it made me hotter and I wanted more. And I got more. Two more times Nicky came inside me, filling me up with his love. He collapsed on me, panting and shaking. We were sweating and a total mess. I knew this is the man who would always be there for me and I would always know I made the right choice.

After several minutes of catching our breath, kissing and groping, Nick rolled off and cuddled up behind me. He rubbed my entire body and fondled my breasts. We fell into a very sweet sleep. I woke up feeling his hardness in my butt crack. He was lightly humping me but I could tell he was still asleep.

I started rocking back, enjoying his hardness and the moans that were softly emanating from his mouth. I rocked his penis for about five minutes before I felt him stir. He reached out and began stroking my back. As soon as he moved, I rolled over on top of him, grabbed his shaft and guided it in to my hungry pussy. I wanted more of his manly cum in me and I was going to get it. I was awakened by her soft moaning sounds and by the feeling of her bum rubbing against my now hard-again penis. She rolled on top of me and placed my love at her entrance, slipped my rock hard penis inside herself and eased herself down to engulf my entire shaft.

We made sweet love again. I enjoyed her sitting on me. I held her hips giving me leverage to pull her down harder, rubbing her clit on my pelvic bone. She sat up giving me a view and access to her perfect small titties. I loved playing with them as she rode my hardness slowly, up and down, forward and back, grinding on my pelvis to stimulate her clit.

We made love slower and more tender, without all the urgency of our first time. We took our time and enjoyed the sensations of making love as a beautiful married couple. Our union was blessed by God and we were blessed to have found each other.

After we climaxed again, Heather lay on top of me as I held her in my arms. She laid her head on my chest and we again fell into a deep, blissful sleep. This time, we slept the sleep of the contented. When we awakened in the morning, we made love again, and again.

We became one flesh, over and over again. We have been one flesh since. I am the luckiest man in the world. Nearly 30 years later and we can still sleep wrapped around each other in blissful contentment. I am blessed beyond measure that I married my best friend, my lover, and my eternal companion.

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my wife and i are separated and she is dating

I am the luckiest man in the world. Needhelpdad - Your Question:.

my wife and i are separated and she is dating

You appear to know so much about this, like you wrote the book in it or something. She has demanded mediation, which is fab because people will see her and her boyfriend for who they really are!

my wife and i are separated and she is dating

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