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And it isn't all a manipulation on my part - I genuinely enjoy talking to new people, I'm good at it, so I'm playing to my strengths. However the amount of animosity towards such men is often aggressive, butthurt, and follows the feminist agenda: I have impeccable grammar when necessary, which is not with some bitch I hardly care about. You still decide when to surrender the booty, to whom, and under what circumstances. They can turn on you in an instant and fuck your hand up. The stock trading ad is for a friend as kind of experiment. That makes the rest of this guide very easy.

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There are a lot of self-proclaimed alpha males sitting on the sidelines, single, working non-stop, spending hours in the gym, but have never quite dealt with their issues. What does begging imply? I am so sorry. Its about liberating love in this moment. Remember, Friends means sex buddies.

To allow it means you allow yourself to used, abused, and disrespected. Cool a blow job. Doing otherwise sets you up for disrespect and to be a provider and the shoulder to cry on when the guy she gave anal to ends up breaking her heart.

In the most recent long-term relationship that I mentioned earlier, with the Latina, she often became more and more annoyed and put off by my lack of leading and handling things, both big or small.

A woman who is with a man who is not in charge — no matter what feminist propaganda or magazine snippets claim — is a woman who loses respect for him and resents him. The consequences are at the minimum having a woman getting bitchy with you, and at the worst cheating on you with a more dominant and confident man, then one day divorcing you while you pay the rent for she and her new bad boy lover.

Check out some of the marriage forums on the internet. It can be quite eye opening. I might not like it, but I respect it. Can it possibly get any more clear? Get yourself out of this easy-going, afraid-to-anger-her mentality. Examine your behavior and words every day. Be confident, and make decisions. I grew up in a small town in Alabama where women were quite plain. I never saw a woman in a sexy, fine dress or extremely feminine attire makeup, accessories, and more.

Honestly, I never knew what a truly beautiful, feminine woman could mean. After moving to a bigger city for my professional career, I did see slightly better examples of womanhood, but unfortunately now that my perspective has changed the truth is now clear to me: Plain, naked faces in dire need of some eyeliner and makeup are everywhere.

After traveling to Colombia and a few other countries, my perspective was forever changed. Average women in other cultures take pride in being feminine and maximizing their sexual attraction. One of my favorite types is a fine Latina in ass-tight jeans and sexy high heels, along with matching earrings, painted nails, dolled-up hair, and a little bit of eyeliner. I have seen feminine latin women as old as 50 who were more sexy than some 35 year old women here.

Check out a few videos of Brazilian TV shows or Colombian girls out dancing. Look at pictures of Ukranian, Latvian, or Polish women. How many plain Janes do you see? I simply had no frame of reference before, but everyday now I see the man-jawed women alongside fatties in my workplace realistically: Unfortunately, it is getting worse now as the fat acceptance movement is attempting to promote fat women as beautiful.

I also receive condescending looks and attitude, with a look of disapproval thrown in for good measure. Whether or not it is a good idea to pursue foreign women is not the issue. The smart man already knows what the risks are, and knows the value in a sincere, more traditional woman who is worth pursuing.

However the amount of animosity towards such men is often aggressive, butthurt, and follows the feminist agenda: They tell women that they need two degrees, followed by careers in law, business, banking, finance, education and government. They lie that strong, independent, smart, high income, well heeled, well traveled, accomplished women are what men want.

Women like that, by and large, are uncaring, unkind, demanding, pessimistic, vulgar, and unattractive. We want women who are supportive, encouraging, demure, cheerful, optimistic, and look like women. Dammit, grow your hair out. Wear a little makeup, and some clothes that flatter your figure. Stop swearing in public. Stop getting wasted in public. Start treating people around you with kindness and humility.

I can hear it now: You just want us for sex! First of all, this is how it works. If you want to attract men, listen to someone who knows about it.

Nor would you be paying EMK to tell you how to do it. So you can either take good advice. And no one said anything about being a doormat. You are still the sexual gatekeepers. You still decide when to surrender the booty, to whom, and under what circumstances.

You want him to lead. No one said anything about you quitting your jobs and pumping out rugrats. We just get up and leave. I am one of the highly accomplished, well educated and well traveled babes out there—and the men I have known have always found my brains and cultivated spirit among the most attractive features about me.

I do not swear, my hair is long, I am beautifully dressed and perfumed, I do not have a pessimistic attitude and I am not vulgar.

Of course I support the man in my life. Did you approach Katz directly? You have an ad related to stock trading as well? I have been corresponding with Katz directly and he suggested the affiliate thing he has available. Who do they hope to end up with? Men my age are too set in their ways nor are they going to give up their freedom for just any woman. What do these women offer that will make us change our minds?

I eat meat, I drink beer, I smoke plus run 3 miles a day go figure , and I am very masculine. Been there and done that so no thanks. Maybe they should read the rants of nice guys just to figure out where they stand. Good writing again, PM. Katz at least is make some honest suggestions to women about what men want. Honestly this is stuff women ought to have learned all along from their mothers and grandmothers. There are a lot of confused, frustrated women and beta males out there….

Red-Pill Advice Going Mainstream? If they want commitment from a high-value alpha with options, this is how they shall reciprocate on a continuous, never-ending basis. Just read pages for the meat of the matter.. Confidance and arrogance are different things.

No, the guys must act like they are the prize. Men and women are different. In the context of dating and relationships, men must take the lead. I doubt that Katz is doing very well. Evan is doing quite well, thankyouverymuch. Marriage is going down the tubes only for men because they know a bad legal contract when they see it. This will simply drive more women to use dating coaches like Evan.

I've often compared women to cats. If I'm petting a cat I always stop when they're enjoying it and then wait for them to ask for more. Getting a cat that doesn't know you to come sit on your lap requires patience. If you try to pick it up too soon it will run away and it will actually take quite a bit longer. Instead of pursuing a cat, I show interest and lure it in with something.

And never touch the belly of a cat you don't know that well. They can turn on you in an instant and fuck your hand up. Communication with women is purely covert in the first place. A lack of punctuation gives of the intention of under-investment to the point where your texts are short and brief.

She's not the highest on your priority list. That's what women want. Accurate grammar is an overt i. The key is to communicate on their level. I'd also say that it makes negligible difference to your chances, in terms of quantity, but increases your chances in terms of quality.

A lot of well educated women are put off by atrocious spelling and grammar. Upping your game in terms of perceived education, care and professionalism, and not sounding like a dead-beat degenerate, will target a greater number of quality females. OP described his outline as a superficial numbers game for sex. That means her quality must meet the simple threshold of looking sexy and clean enough for the guy's standards.

The rest of her could be anything. If you either aren't merely looking for a bunch of sex or if other characteristics of a woman are more important to how you rate her overall quality in regard to sex, then you should tinker with or disregard his outline. For example, if your goal is to acquire plates, then this guide won't necessarily give you the best approach.

Using decent grammar will decrease your number of hits but hopefully increase the average quality and thereby increase your likelihood of connecting with a plateable woman. I use punctuations since ever, it comes pretty much automaticly without thinking Not that easy to stop if you ask me but I get the point.

Action words are where it's at. I forget where I saw it, but there's science that talking like that actually works wonders, but it has to be used at the right times.

The message i sent to my current plate to arrange a date, two days after the first time we fucked:. No "hey" in the message, no smilies, no punctuation marks. Plus the fact that she was hamstering for the whole day on why does she needs a jacket in the middle of July. This proves why women leading societies always collapse in the end. We are regressing to accommodate women's preferences. I'd edit this to say beta men would bark like dogs. Alphas would meow and get laid regardless.

You wrote a huge guide on how to appeal and cater to females and get them attracted. That's the barking part. Betas meow and dont get laid. If simply doingwhat you wanted worked, this post and subreddit wouldnt exist.

We do what women respond to because they're driven by nature. OP is not preaching to do what women want but instead to appeal to the irresistible subconscious instinct that drive woman's decisions.

Women want to be seduced. Successfully seducing a woman is giving her what she wants. Being alpha is giving her what she wants. There's no hamstering that can be done to escape that. I realize that is the reality of the situation, but I'm not sure If I go to that level if I will be degrading and eroding all self respect.

It's a slippery slope. I think it has to do with the ghetto culture here in the USA. It's cool to be ghetto. Ghetto rap took a while to penetrate the American fabric and now it's there like a black virus. I wouldn't go as far as to blame urban culture for poor grammatical practice. I'd say it's the birth of the digital age that caused the shift of importance. The digital age and online globalization brought about an increase in speed in all things and a lack of patience as a result.

In turn, certain things were deemed unimportant within the greater scheme. The information was deemed more important than the grammar used to convey it so long as the core message was unaltered. A while back I lost my phone downtown. I was still logged in to a bunch of my accounts like tinder. A day or so later I log in from another device and notice that the guy that found my phone was messaging some girls on there better than me.

I particularly remember some stalled out conversation where I was using normal words. He messaged her "Wyd" and he replied a lot. Then something like "hbu" and she replied a ton. Whereas when I was doing it normally it was like pulling teeth. Eventually tracked down the phone to the shit part of town.

Went in and demanded to search a couple of houses. That was dumb in retrospect. Well I decided to implement the guide in Argentina, where we have no ghetto, and I am getting numbers left and right, so many that now I don't know what the fuck am I going to do with 15 numbers and three days next week. If a girl gives you shit about your grammar it has nothing to do with your grammar.

Its a shit test. She doesn't give 2 shits about grammar. I have impeccable grammar when necessary, which is not with some bitch I hardly care about. Perfect grammar signals overinvestment pretty consistently. If a girl wants to think either means I'm overinvested, I don't particularly care; I will just get a new less retarded one. I have good grammar, but I'm not catering my grammar towards her. To do so would be an over-investment on my part. She's not getting wet over my proper usage of you're and your.

She's getting wet over my Adonis belt. It paints your profile beta blue and let's the girl you super liked know you are eager. Counter intuitive to abundance mentality and just seems like a new feature to weed out the betas.

The best part is it colours your profile blue. Does an RPer work at tinder? This chick's pics are way hotter than the usual ones that message back. I'll probably fuck it up at some point, but hey - one step at a time. Thanks for the guide, bro. I'm slaying it at online dating and I really have to disagree with most of your advice. Responding with "K" or repeating "What's your number" is going to turn a lot of girls off, at this point you're just a random person on the internet and have little sway with them.

Ok, so rule number one is don't talk about sex. There are a bunch of creeps on these sites and women are mostly sick of them. Ask for her number, or ask if she uses whatsapp or viber or whatever. Now you will not be a dating site guy but a 'new friend' to her. B and D should not be too long, about responses from her is good enough for each. It depends on the situation. If she is really talkative you can go right for the date. If she is a little colder you need to get her talking more.

When you ask for a date, it shouldn't even be a doubt in your mind she will say yes - when the woman is talking to you freely and is asking you questions also, they want to meet you.

Also I should note - I never get flakes. And I get laid so much on the first date it's ridiculous. A big reason for this is I'm priming them before the date, I'm not bullying them into a meeting where they aren't comfortable. If you've been really cold and talking about sex or they haven't talked to you beyond giving you their number, the meeting is going to be like meeting a random person on the street.

It's going to take more work at the date to get comfortable. As a former salesman, I'd just add it's not just getting a 'yes' that is important, it's getting them to think 'YES! I don't doubt that this worked for you but I've had more success focusing on hinting at sex. You don't want to be overt about it, no "u want sum fuk? Something like "We're easily the hottest people on this site, I'm pretty sure it's our duty to create the next generation of models".

The chicks that want to bone on the first date want guys that are sexual and fun. I agree with the rest of your tips, but avoiding the sexual talk hasn't really worked for me in the past. But from what I've seen of the competition girls have shown me messages , there is a temptation to search for spank bank material rather than to actually have sex.

That's what should be avoided. I guess I've got more of a quick strike mentality, where the goal is to get them to my house and make things sexual there. I must disagree with this response. The over-investment implied will serve as nothing more than a self-deprecation. I'd argue that this is beginning in an implied over-investment. You don't know this woman and immediately you're asking her details about herself. You're also limiting your range across the board.

You'd have to actually read the bios of every girl you're interested in, pick out something unique about each one, then cater a question to her. It also significantly increases your actual investment in the entire process. Use her response to start a conversation, blablabla that's so interesting then ask another question.

Again, asking personal or detailed questions to a women you've never met conveys an over-investment. I've had fat chicks ask me about details on my bio and I've been immediately pu off, so I know other LSSWs think the same thing if we do it. Their comfort shouldn't matter to you. If they can't meet at a time or place convenient to you, move on. If you cater to each and every LSSW that responds, that may be.

But that's an over-investment on your part. You're adapting your schedule and time to better suit theirs, which is a weakness in frame. Or you can skip the date altogether and invite them to your place. This statement feels like it stems from a fear of confrontation; you're afraid of offending her, so you tell her what she likes to hear in order to get in her pants. The sex means too much to you. Again, if your SMV is in check, she'll be comfortable in a dive bar amongst thieves and harlots.

Her comfort isn't something you should have to work at to establish. Different strokes, I guess. I tried the tough guy approach and found it significantly limited my pool. As for overinvestment, it doesn't really take a lot of time to do what I said. The next girl I'm meeting? I told her her hat was awesome, and asked her where she bought it.

To me it's not an overinvestment, it's an excuse to initiate a conversation. If the girl is attracted to you, she'll appreciate it for what it is no matter how stupid or inane and engage. I suppose this also depends on your preference - I like meeting new people, and talking to them, so for me it isn't an investment at all. If I can have an interesting conversation with someone, that fits my approach and is enjoyable for me. Her comfort does matter to me insofar as she feels comfortable enough to decide to meet me and eventually have sex.

And personally I'm not comfortable inviting a stranger to my house, I'd much rather meet them for coffee and have at least a short date to make everything feel less 'arranged. And it isn't all a manipulation on my part - I genuinely enjoy talking to new people, I'm good at it, so I'm playing to my strengths. I think any sort of one-size-fits-all, acronym-laden approach is going to not suit a lot of people.

It's a numbers game - imagine read a long rambling talk, messaging and of course she doesn't even bother replying to you to your crafted message I agree about minimalist profiles. Going in depth about yourself shows over-investment and opens the door to saying something she doesn't like. It also looks like you're trying to impress. Women like mystery, then they can fill in the blanks on their own and imagination is often more interesting than reality.

On okcupid if you fill out every section and answer a certain number of questions then your profile will become more visible. This can be achieved with short one word or one sentence answers. Now, I screen pretty strongly for sex; I think that accounts for my numbers being a bit lopsided as the interaction moves forward. My initial success is a bit tougher, but it pays off later on. I went on Tinder briefly.

My profile pics were reasonable but no shirt off I'm not jacked yet and didn't have any pics with women that I felt OK about posting only ex gf etc. After this it went downhill got almost no meets and no lays.

Granted, I don't meet up with 27 women every week, but going off of those that either agree or ask to meet, that's usually where it stands. I'll put some pictures up of me, they don't HAVE to be the best ones because women care about personality right? I'll message women I believe are in my league not fat with a well thought out highly intellectual message explaining to them why I am interested in them, what I liked about their profile, and why we should get a drink sometime.

Go as far as to use photoshop to hide blemishes. Covertly put shirtless pictures up in natural settings to show off your body. Forget highly intellectual message - be short, direct and brief. NEVER tell her that you find her attractive or pretty. A man goes from presenting himself as the best person possible to presenting himself as the most attractive product on the shelf. Women base their shopping off the label all the time with no appreciation for what's inside.

It's why we've seen such a boom in Marketing during the last generation. She will get very insecure and try harder. Happened to me last night. I got asked almost immediately how many girls I've met so far. Told her I don't keep track but they were pretty boring.

An hour later she was in my bed moaning. I tell girls im very particular about nipples. I hate big nipples, they will send nudes very soon after.

How many girls will actually respond to "K"? This is a good guide overall, I just feel like many won't bother responding to a one word answer like that, especially when they presumably are getting hundreds of other messages. When your SMV is a margin above hers, and you're making it clear you know that, why wouldn't she respond?

Yours will be different even if it's a single letter. Yet I'm pretty sure the majority are "hey" to start. It's even in their profile. If the responds it's a sure date. If she doesn't next her. I like to give those responses at one point to weed out the flakes. I've followed your previous post's advice with great results so this is not a critique but more of clarifying questions.

To me it seems like you're placating to the times she is available. Same goes for "whenever" when being ask to meet up. To me this seems like it goes against the whole men are in control and women want to be led idea.

Wouldn't it be more manly to dictate time and place? Responding with something like "X time at X location. This seems to be against the consensus in most RP materials. Outright saying your wants is successful, or at least has been for me. I guess I'm just interested in a discussion of how and why this has been successful for you since it does not seem to be the norm. I think the main point here is being different, and in this day and age, being different means showing you don't really give a shit.

As for 3, one point of distinction is texting before she considers us a real person versus when she has met us and knows we exist. The vagueness and flakiness is perhaps better for the former in order to spin the hamster wheel and force her to think about us as real people and wonder what we're thinking about.

I'm just interested in a discussion of how and why this has been successful for you since it does not seem to be the norm. Some of his convos went something like:. Do you want to hang out and be friends? Saw an RSD video about "let's meet up as friends. Online dating is a great teaching tool for guys who still struggle with putting women on a pedastel.

Read those profiles, and you will quickly learn how boring and fucking basic the majority of them are. You realize quickly just how more interesting you are compared to them. It helps you realize that girls are really looking for an interesting guy so they can join in on the activities. RSD Tyler puts it as 'a man is an island with a strong grounded reality.

A woman is a boat with no reality and she goes from island to island experiencing different realities. But she has no reality of her own. That tidbit is actually striking me much harder than any TRP theory short of the misandry bubble.

I have a very good amount of success with online dating, getting more dates per week than I can actually go on. That said, I don't agree with many of these statements, though I do see the logic and reasoning in them. Many of them I also agree with whole-heartedly. Man this is tight I have been implemeting this the past few days with my tinder matches, and hell its really useful to weed out quickly non interested girls. TRP has shocked me with how little time and energy I can invest in a woman and still get laid.

Your last guide put that at an all-time maximum effeciency. This guide looks like it'll cut my time investment further. Your guides are doing the world a service, on several different levels.

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Seems like you saved yourself from a bloody self-conceited bitch there. I can't live without commas though. You want to keep going until you get to the point where she has nothing left to say or the conversations hit an end.

the red pill dating

She desperately wants to get inside your head and see what makes you so different from the others. I guess the main thing I'm lacking, and would require advice on, is how to bring the chat from hi how are you and worthless small talk to an actual date. Don't start until you're ready.

the red pill dating

A true alpha will not claim to be one. There are speed dating millau decent women, but it's like diving for gold in an ocean of rancid fat. An increase in "free" testosterone and Nitric Oxide production to the penis. Tim on June 10, at 9: Wouldn't it be more manly to dictate time and place? Give about 1 hour intervals on your date meetup times. I don't really do "dates" it's f-close after meet up or I don't talk the red pill dating her again.