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Are you an aspiring journalist or just looking for an outlet where you can share your voice? I wasn't sure if I wanted to be just with him. That's what my boyfriend did to me. If your guy just keeps brushing it aside and saying he's just afraid of getting hurt, don't want to talk about it, just enjoy now, etc. Labels are only meant for other people, you know what you are to each other and you know what you have together Does this mean we think our hookups, no matter how casual, should be exclusive? They might be worth the risk.

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What you can do, is take risks, knowing that he won't commit cause he's a loser. He was actually very open about talking about the whole thing. That's what my boyfriend did to me. Of course im open for the next step in the future if things do work out. In the beginning you made it clear it would be an uncomplicated, casual, fun deal. But I'm not saying everyone's similar in these situations.

Or just only from the person they say that stuff to, because when they meet someonw they really like, that all goes out the window. What you can do, is take risks, knowing that he won't commit cause he's a loser. And based on past experience--he's not taking you seriously. You're just that girl he can rely on, until he can find better. Don't get involved cos it gets sticky.

I don't think it's such a bad thing. Some people just don't want to jump into a relationship as fast as some people. I'm assuming you guys are "openly dating" so go ahead and date around until you both decide to take the next step and be together officialy. Who knows you might find someone better?

Maybe its for him to be in a safe end of a relationship, but if he would consider the others feelings. The thing about being unofficial well at least to me is that no one is held accountable for their actions because it's an open relationship so if one or the other get hurt no one's really to blame, it just seems easier I guess Sounds like he doesn't really know what he wants? Probably meaning that he also wants to "date" other girls?

But my bf said that he didn't want to admit he liked me cuz he wasn't sure whether or not he really wanted something out of it I didn't like commitment.

I wasn't sure if I wanted to be just with him. I felt, I was too young, so I might see others. I didn't want to take care of him. I just wanted to take care of myself.

But he showed me that he cares so much for me. And, if your guy seems to like you, he'll start to see that he needs to take those risks and care for you as well. But I'm not saying everyone's similar in these situations. Just takes some time and patience.

And pretty much, he's telling you this is because he knows he might hurt you if he gives up and you give up. So he's probably giving out a warning? I mean if he doesn't like commitment, he probably doesn't want to be blamed if he breaks your heart. Since, he never really in this opinion, wanted to be official. I want to find out how much he likes me. If he likes me enough he'd take the risk right?

Thanks for the advices, I really needed someone elses input. In my opinion, some guys don't want the "attachment".. We both talked about it for a long time, both liked each other but weren't sure if we were both ready for a relationship at the moment. We're "official" now and it means a lot more to me that we both weren't totally sure about it in the beginning but then decided to give it a shot. Especially him committing to something official whereas before he didn't with other girls for a long time.

The other people here have a valid point too about the guy possibly just BSing and playing you. It really depends on the guy, how you guys talk, what you talk about, etc. Maybe this will help. One of the things I noticed is that whenever I brought up the concept of us being official, he never brushed it aside and asked to talk about something else or ignore it. He was actually very open about talking about the whole thing.

If your guy just keeps brushing it aside and saying he's just afraid of getting hurt, don't want to talk about it, just enjoy now, etc. I think it's good to date someone for a long while before officially getting a relationship, that's how it should be. We make it easier! Sign up for our newsletter to get the best of HC delivered to your inbox.

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I just wanted to take care of myself. By jh12 Started January I feel as if he shouldnt have told me that because now I'm not willing to take a risk if he's not.

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